The Overwork Trap – Why Working Smarter, Not Harder, Leads to Success
Do you feel like you’re constantly pushing yourself to the limit, working harder but not seeing the results you want? Many businesswomen, particularly those from immigrant backgrounds, feel the need to work twice as hard to succeed. But here’s the truth: working harder isn’t the answer—working smarter is.
Introduction:
Do you feel like you’re constantly pushing yourself to the limit, working harder but not seeing the results you want? Many businesswomen, particularly those from immigrant backgrounds, feel the need to work twice as hard to succeed. But here’s the truth: working harder isn’t the answer—working smarter is.
When you overwork, you often end up focusing on tasks that don’t drive real growth. But when you start focusing on the right things, you’ll find that business success comes more easily.
Client Story:
One of my clients was stuck in this cycle. She believed, “I need to work harder to prove myself,” and this led her to take on more work than she could handle, leaving her exhausted and frustrated.
Despite all her hard work, she wasn’t getting more clients or increasing her income. After we shifted her approach to focusing on tasks that brought in more clients, everything changed. She started working less but was finally seeing results—more clients and more income.
Quick Wins to Shift from Overwork to Success:
Focus on High-Impact Tasks:
Look at your to-do list. Identify the 1-2 tasks that will have the biggest impact on your business. Focus on those and let go of the rest.Set Boundaries:
Learn to say no to tasks and commitments that don’t align with your business goals. Your time is valuable—protect it.Delegate:
Free up your time by delegating low-priority tasks to others. This allows you to focus on growing your business.
Why Working Harder Isn’t Always the Solution:
Many businesswomen fall into the trap of thinking that more hours worked equals more success. But success comes from working smarter—focusing on tasks that move the needle and lead to more clients and income.
Ready to Stop Overworking and Start Growing Your Business?
Take the next step to uncover what’s holding you back. Discover how you can shift your approach to work smarter, not harder, and start seeing real business results.
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Achieve More with Less Stress: Heal Your Core Wounds
We all have deep-seated beliefs that shape our thoughts, actions, and ultimately, our lives. These core wound thoughts can be incredibly limiting, causing us to work harder and longer than necessary, leading to mental, emotional, and physical exhaustion. But what if you could transform these thoughts and unlock a more fulfilling, joyful life?
We all have deep-seated beliefs that shape our thoughts, actions, and ultimately, our lives. These core wound thoughts can be incredibly limiting, causing us to work harder and longer than necessary, leading to mental, emotional, and physical exhaustion. But what if you could transform these thoughts and unlock a more fulfilling, joyful life?
Understanding Core Wound Thoughts
Core wound thoughts are deeply ingrained beliefs that often stem from past experiences. They can manifest in various ways, such as:
“I am not enough”: This thought can drive you to overcompensate, constantly striving for perfection and validation.
“I am unseen/unheard”: Feeling invisible can lead to overworking in an attempt to prove your worth.
“I don’t belong”: This belief can make you feel isolated, pushing you to work harder to fit in.
“I am unworthy”: Feeling unworthy can result in taking on too much, trying to earn your place.
“I am trapped/stuck”: This thought can create a sense of helplessness, making it hard to see a way out of exhausting situations.
“I am unloved/unlovable”: Believing you are unlovable can lead to overextending yourself to gain approval and love.
These are just a few examples of the 22 core wound thoughts that might be holding you back.
Transforming Your Core Wound Thoughts
Transforming these core wound thoughts is a powerful journey that opens up new possibilities and leads to a more fulfilling life. By identifying and addressing these deep-seated beliefs, you can achieve success with peace and joy. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Use the practical steps and exercises in this guide to start transforming your core wounds today.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Gain access to a 3-part video series and accompanying workbook designed to help you uncover how your core wounds might be causing you to work harder and longer than necessary, leading to mental, emotional, and physical exhaustion. This resource will guide you through personalized strategies to help you achieve your goals with greater ease and fulfillment.
Click here to access the video series and workbook and start your journey towards a more balanced and joyful life. Discover all 22 core wound thoughts and learn how to transform them for lasting change.
Overcoming the Core Wound of Feeling Unseen and Unheard for Businesswomen
As a businesswoman, you face unique challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. One of the most painful and pervasive core wounds is the belief that “I am unseen and unheard.” This wound can drain your time, money, happiness, and peace, holding you back from reaching your full potential.
As a businesswoman, you face unique challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. One of the most painful and pervasive core wounds is the belief that “I am unseen and unheard.” This wound can drain your time, money, happiness, and peace, holding you back from reaching your full potential.
Understanding the Core Wound: The belief that “I am unseen and unheard” often stems from childhood experiences where you felt ignored, dismissed, or not valued. This wound can manifest in various ways, such as feeling overlooked in meetings, not having your ideas recognized, or struggling to assert yourself.
Why It Matters: Healing this core wound is crucial because it can:
Boost your self-confidence and self-worth.
Improve your communication and assertiveness.
Enhance your relationships and networking opportunities.
Increase your overall happiness and fulfillment.
Example:
Circumstance: A businesswoman’s ideas are frequently ignored in team meetings.
Thought: “I am unseen and unheard.”
Feeling: Frustration and sadness.
Actions:
Stops sharing ideas.
Withdraws from discussions.
Doubts her value.
Result: Feels even more invisible and undervalued.
After Healing:
Circumstance: A businesswoman’s ideas are frequently ignored in team meetings.
Thought: “My voice matters and I am heard.”
Feeling: Confidence and empowerment.
Actions:
Continues to share ideas.
Engages actively in discussions.
Advocates for her contributions.
Result: Feels valued and recognized.
Questions to Reflect:
What if you believed you were always seen and heard?
How would your business change if you embraced your strengths and capabilities?
What new opportunities would you pursue if you felt confident and recognized?
Quick Win: Gather evidence of how the opposite of your core wound may be true. For example, if your core wound is “I am unseen,” look for instances where your contributions were acknowledged and valued. 🌸
Example:
Before Healing: “I am unseen and unheard.”
Evidence: I often felt ignored in meetings.
After Healing: “I am capable and worthy.”
Evidence: My ideas led to a successful project and were praised by my team.
By addressing and healing the core wound of feeling unseen and unheard, you can transform your life and business. Imagine feeling confident, empowered, and ready to seize new opportunities. It’s possible, and I’m here to help you on this journey.
Ready to break free from the belief that you are unseen and unheard and unlock your true potential? Schedule a consultation call with me today and start your journey to empowerment! 📞
Unlock Your Ease: Find Out if You’re Working Harder Than Necessary
Are you feeling mentally, physically, and emotionally drained, yet not achieving the results you desire? You’re not alone. Many ambitious professionals, especially businesswomen, often fall into the trap of overworking without seeing the progress they crave. But what if there was a better way?
Are you feeling mentally, physically, and emotionally drained, yet not achieving the results you desire? You’re not alone. Many ambitious professionals, especially businesswomen, often fall into the trap of overworking without seeing the progress they crave. But what if there was a better way?
Introducing our free quiz, “Unlock Your Ease: Find Out if You’re Working Harder Than Necessary.” This quiz is designed to help you identify the beliefs that might be driving your overwork and holding you back from success. In just a few minutes, you’ll uncover the root causes of burnout, gain clarity, and learn how to make meaningful changes. You’ll also receive a bonus ebook, '30 Strategies to Work with Ease,' filled with actionable steps to create a more balanced, fulfilling work life.
Ready to start working smarter, not harder? Take the quiz today and experience a transformation toward more freedom, joy, and results in your professional life. Don’t let the hustle hold you back—take the quiz now and start your journey to working with more ease!
Overcoming the Core Wound of Rejection for Businesswomen
As a businesswoman, you face unique challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. One of the most painful and pervasive core wounds is the belief that “I am not enough.” This wound can drain your time, money, happiness, and peace, holding you back from reaching your full potential.
As a businesswoman, you face unique challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. One of the most painful and pervasive core wounds is the belief that “I am not enough.” This wound can drain your time, money, happiness, and peace, holding you back from reaching your full potential.
Understanding the Core Wound: The belief that “I am not enough” often stems from childhood experiences where you felt criticized, misunderstood, or not good enough. This wound can manifest in various ways, such as self-doubt, fear of failure, and a constant need for validation.
Why It Matters: Healing this core wound is crucial because it can:
Boost your self-confidence and self-worth.
Improve your decision-making and risk-taking abilities.
Enhance your relationships and networking opportunities.
Increase your overall happiness and fulfillment.
Example:
Circumstance: A businesswoman’s proposal is rejected by a potential client.
Thought: “I am not enough.”
Feeling: Shame and inadequacy.
Actions:
Avoids taking risks.
Overworks to prove worth.
Withdraws from opportunities.
Result: Feels stuck and unfulfilled.
After Healing:
Circumstance: A businesswoman’s proposal is rejected by a potential client.
Thought: “I am enough and worthy of success.”
Feeling: Confidence and resilience.
Actions:
Takes calculated risks.
Seeks feedback and improves.
Embraces new opportunities.
Result: Feels empowered and successful.
Questions to Reflect:
What if you believed you were always enough?
How would your business change if you embraced your strengths and capabilities?
What new opportunities would you pursue if you felt confident and worthy?
Quick Win: Gather evidence of how the opposite of your core wound may be true. For example, if your core wound is “I am not enough,” look for instances where you succeeded and were appreciated. 🌸
Example:
Before Healing: “I am not enough.”
Evidence: I often felt criticized and undervalued.
After Healing: “I am capable and worthy.”
Evidence: I received praise for my innovative ideas and secured a key partnership.
By addressing and healing the core wound of rejection, you can transform your life and business. Imagine feeling confident, empowered, and ready to seize new opportunities. It’s possible, and I’m here to help you on this journey.
Ready to break free from the belief that you are not enough and unlock your true potential? Schedule a consultation call with me today and start your journey to empowerment! 📞
Overcoming the Core Wound of Unworthiness for Businesswomen
As a businesswoman, you face unique challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. One of the most painful and pervasive core wounds is the belief that “I am not good enough.” This wound can drain your time, money, happiness, and peace, holding you back from reaching your full potential.
As a businesswoman, you face unique challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. One of the most painful and pervasive core wounds is the belief that “I am not good enough.” This wound can drain your time, money, happiness, and peace, holding you back from reaching your full potential.
Understanding the Core Wound: The belief that “I am not good enough” often stems from childhood experiences where you felt criticized, misunderstood, or not good enough. This wound can manifest in various ways, such as self-doubt, fear of failure, and a constant need for validation.
Why It Matters: Healing this core wound is crucial because it can:
Boost your self-confidence and self-worth.
Improve your decision-making and risk-taking abilities.
Enhance your relationships and networking opportunities.
Increase your overall happiness and fulfillment.
Example:
Circumstance: A businesswoman feels overlooked for a leadership role.
Thought: “I am not good enough.”
Feeling: Inadequacy and frustration.
Actions:
Avoids seeking new opportunities.
Overworks to prove worth.
Doubts abilities.
Result: Feels stuck and undervalued.
After Healing:
Circumstance: A businesswoman feels overlooked for a leadership role.
Thought: “I am capable and deserving of success.”
Feeling: Confidence and determination.
Actions:
Seeks new opportunities.
Advocates for herself.
Embraces challenges.
Result: Feels empowered and valued.
Questions to Reflect:
What if you believed you were always worthy?
How would your business change if you embraced your strengths and capabilities?
What new opportunities would you pursue if you felt confident and worthy?
Quick Win: Gather evidence of how the opposite of your core wound may be true. For example, if your core wound is “I am not good enough,” look for instances where you succeeded and were appreciated. 🌸
Example:
Before Healing: “I am not good enough.”
Evidence: I often felt overlooked and undervalued.
After Healing: “I am capable and worthy.”
Evidence: I received recognition for my hard work and secured a leadership role.
By addressing and healing the core wound of unworthiness, you can transform your life and business. Imagine feeling confident, empowered, and ready to seize new opportunities. It’s possible, and I’m here to help you on this journey.
Ready to break free from the belief that you are not good enough and unlock your true potential? Schedule a consultation call with me today and start your journey to empowerment! 📞
Are Core Wounds Sabotaging Your Business Growth?
As an immigrant businesswoman, you face unique challenges. But did you know that deep-seated core wounds could be holding you back from reaching your full potential? These wounds, often formed in childhood, can cause significant emotional and mental pain, and even impact your financial success.
As an immigrant businesswoman, you face unique challenges. But did you know that deep-seated core wounds could be holding you back from reaching your full potential? These wounds, often formed in childhood, can cause significant emotional and mental pain, and even impact your financial success.
Core Wounds are the deep-seated beliefs we develop when we are hurt or in pain as children. They can manifest as feelings of unworthiness, rejection, or abandonment, and can sabotage our efforts to succeed.
Why It Matters: Healing these wounds is crucial because they can:
Drain your energy and focus.
Cause stress and anxiety, affecting your decision-making.
Lead to self-sabotage and missed opportunities.
Impact your financial success by limiting your potential.
Questions to Reflect:
What if you could overcome the fear of failure and take bold steps in your business?
How would your business change if you truly believed in your worth and capabilities?
What new opportunities would you pursue if you felt more confident and empowered?
Gather evidence of how the opposite of your core wound may be true. For example, if your core wound is “I don’t belong,” look for instances where you felt included and valued. 🌸
Example:
Before Healing: “I don’t belong.”
Evidence: I often felt excluded from networking events.
After Healing: “I belong and am worthy of connection.”
Evidence: I built meaningful relationships at recent events.
By addressing and healing these core wounds, you can transform your life and business. Imagine feeling confident, empowered, and ready to seize new opportunities. It’s possible, and I’m here to help you on this journey.
Ready to break free from the pain of core wounds and unlock your true potential? Schedule a consultation call now and discover how a new approach can lead to successful outcomes. 📞
Are You Working Harder Than You Need To? Take This Quiz to Find Out
As women, especially those of us who’ve immigrated to pursue a better life and career, we often feel like we have to prove ourselves. Whether it's the pressure to perform, the need to belong, or the fear of not being enough, these deeply ingrained beliefs can drive us to work beyond our limits. I see it all the time—women who are juggling too much, constantly feeling exhausted, but not making the progress they want. 😩
If you’re an ambitious immigrant businesswoman, you’re probably no stranger to hard work. You know the grind, the hustle, and the long hours. But have you ever wondered if you’re working harder than necessary? 🤔
It’s easy to think that success only comes through relentless effort. But what if there was a smarter way? What if you could achieve more by doing less? That’s exactly what my quiz is designed to help you uncover.
The Hidden Cost of Overworking:
As women, especially those of us who’ve immigrated to pursue a better life and career, we often feel like we have to prove ourselves. Whether it's the pressure to perform, the need to belong, or the fear of not being enough, these deeply ingrained beliefs can drive us to work beyond our limits. I see it all the time—women who are juggling too much, constantly feeling exhausted but not making the progress they want. 😩
The truth is, overworking isn’t the key to success. In fact, it’s often the biggest barrier to it.
What’s Really Holding You Back?
This quiz helps you pinpoint the exact beliefs and thought patterns that are making you work harder and longer than you need to. These are often deeply rooted ideas that have been running in the background for years—thoughts like “I’m not enough,” “I don’t belong,” or “I need to do more to prove my worth.”
These beliefs can sneakily cause you to overextend yourself, leading to mental, emotional, and physical exhaustion. But here’s the good news: once you uncover them, you can change them. And that’s where the magic happens—because when you shift those thoughts, everything else becomes easier. 🙌
Why Take the Quiz?
I get it—you might be thinking, “I don’t have time for this,” or “I’m afraid of what I might uncover.” Both are completely valid. But here’s why this quiz is worth your time:
You’ll Save Time and Energy
By identifying how you’re working harder than necessary, you’ll start to see where you can cut back and focus on what really matters. Working with me isn’t about piling on more tasks—it’s about doing less, more effectively. You’ll actually save time and energy.It’s a Safe Space
I know it can feel scary to dig into your thoughts and beliefs, especially when you fear uncovering something deep and painful. But I promise you—this quiz (and my coaching) creates a safe and supportive space. My clients often feel relief and empowerment after uncovering the thoughts that have been holding them back. They realize that what felt overwhelming is actually manageable, with the right guidance.You’ll Make More Progress with Less Effort
Once you start working smarter, not harder, you’ll see how much easier it is to make progress. Many of my clients say they didn’t believe it at first—but working together, they found that they could accomplish more in less time. And that’s exactly what this quiz will set you up to do.
How It Works:
Taking the quiz is simple. It’s designed specifically for immigrant businesswomen like you who are juggling a lot but ready to find a better way. It’ll take just a few minutes, and by the end, you’ll have a clearer understanding of the thoughts driving you to overwork—and how to start shifting them.
Ready to Take the First Step?
If you’re tired of feeling exhausted and constantly pushing yourself to the limit, now’s the time to make a change. Take the quiz today and find out where you can free up your time, energy, and focus. Let’s work smarter, not harder—and get you the results you deserve without the burnout. 💪
Working harder doesn’t have to be your reality. By identifying the thoughts that are holding you back, you can start working more effectively—and enjoy more freedom, energy, and success. So why wait? Take the quiz and let’s get started on your journey to a more balanced, joyful life.
Overcoming the Core Wound of “Something Is Wrong with Me” for Immigrant Businesswomen
As an immigrant businesswoman, you face unique challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. One of the most painful and pervasive core wounds is the belief that “something is wrong with me.” This wound can be a significant dream stealer, holding you back from achieving your full potential and living a fulfilling life.
As an immigrant businesswoman, you face unique challenges that can sometimes feel overwhelming. One of the most painful and pervasive core wounds is the belief that “something is wrong with me.” This wound can be a significant dream stealer, holding you back from achieving your full potential and living a fulfilling life.
Understanding the Core Wound: The belief that “something is wrong with me” often stems from childhood experiences where you felt criticized, misunderstood, or not good enough. This wound can manifest in various ways, such as self-doubt, fear of failure, and a constant need for validation.
Why It Matters: Healing this core wound is crucial because it can:
Boost your self-confidence and self-worth.
Improve your decision-making and risk-taking abilities.
Enhance your relationships and networking opportunities.
Increase your overall happiness and fulfillment.
Example:
Circumstance: An immigrant businesswoman struggles to secure funding for her startup.
Thought: “Something is wrong with me; I am not good enough.”
Feeling: Inadequacy and self-doubt.
Actions:
Avoids pitching to investors.
Overworks to compensate for perceived flaws.
Doubts her business ideas.
Result: Misses out on funding opportunities and feels stuck.
After Healing:
Circumstance: An immigrant businesswoman struggles to secure funding for her startup.
Thought: “I am capable and worthy of success.”
Feeling: Confidence and determination.
Actions:
Actively pitches to investors.
Seeks feedback and improves her pitch.
Believes in her business ideas.
Result: Secures funding and feels empowered.
Questions to Reflect:
What if you believed that you are enough just as you are?
How would your business change if you embraced your strengths and capabilities?
What new opportunities would you pursue if you felt confident and worthy?
Quick Win: Gather evidence of how the opposite of your core wound may be true. For example, if your core wound is “something is wrong with me,” look for instances where you succeeded or received positive feedback. 🌸
Example:
Before Healing: “Something is wrong with me.”
Evidence: I often felt criticized and misunderstood.
After Healing: “I am capable and worthy.”
Evidence: I received praise for my innovative ideas and secured a key partnership.
Ready to break free from the belief that something is wrong with you and unlock your true potential? Schedule a consultation call now and discover how a new approach can lead to successful outcomes.📞
By addressing and healing the core wound of “something is wrong with me,” you can transform your life and business. Imagine feeling confident, empowered, and ready to seize new opportunities. It’s possible, and I’m here to help you on this journey.
Why Success Doesn’t Always Bring Happiness for Immigrant Businesswomen
You’ve done amazing things as an immigrant businesswoman, but happiness still feels far away. This is common, and understanding why can help you find true joy. Let’s look at three reasons.
1. Obstacles and Challenges
You’ve done amazing things as an immigrant businesswoman, but happiness still feels far away. This is common, and understanding why can help you find true joy. Let’s look at three reasons.
1. Obstacles and Challenges
The real problem is often the root cause of the issue. When we find the root cause, we can solve the problem faster without making ourselves a problem to fix. Whether the problem is a circumstance, thought, feeling, or action, identifying the real issue allows us to address it effectively.
Example: You might have a dream career but still feel unfulfilled because the root cause is a belief that you’re not good enough. By addressing this belief, you can start to feel more satisfied with your achievements.
Quick Win: Take a moment to write down one recurring problem and think about whether it’s caused by a thought, feeling, or action. This simple step can help you start addressing the real issue.
2. Emotional Exhaustion and Fatigue
Creating a different relationship with emotions and finding the internal cause of our feelings can help reduce emotional exhaustion and fatigue. Often, hidden beliefs or “rules” we’ve picked up cause this tiredness. By redefining these beliefs to match who we really are, we can feel more energized.
Example: You might have a dream house but feel constantly tired because you believe you must always be perfect. Changing this belief can help you feel more relaxed and energized.
Quick Win: Identify one belief or rule you follow that might be making you tired and consider how you can change it. This can help you start feeling better right away.
3. Struggling to Feel Joyful
Giving ourselves permission to feel joyful emotions, practicing knowing and naming our feelings, and learning how to manage our thoughts can help us create a healthy and joyful relationship with ourselves and others. This way, external circumstances have little to no control over us.
Example: You might have a dream marriage but still not feel happy because you believe you need to achieve more to be worthy of joy. By giving yourself permission to feel joyful now, you can start experiencing more positive emotions.
Quick Win: Think about one recent achievement and how you felt afterward. What might be stopping you from feeling joy? Reflecting on this can help you start experiencing more positive emotions.
If you’re ready to explore the possibility of authentic joy, happiness, and fulfillment, download my free ebook. It has questions and steps to help you find and fix these problems.
Unlock New Possibilities: Change Your Approach, Change Your Results
To create different outcomes, we need to believe in things that don’t make sense to our past selves. When we look at our past, we recreate it. But when we focus on new possibilities, we open doors to incredible opportunities.
To create different outcomes, we need to believe in things that don’t make sense to our past selves. When we look at our past, we recreate it. But when we focus on new possibilities, we open doors to incredible opportunities. Every big invention required someone to believe and think about things that never existed before. Too many struggling businesswomen limit themselves to what they think they can have, based on what others have done.
Ask Yourself:
What new possibilities can I believe in today?
If it was possible to achieve something amazing, what would that look like?
How can I give myself permission to think bigger?
Vision of Possibility: Imagine deciding something was possible and making it a reality because you gave yourself the permission to make it happen. What would that look like for you? Maybe you can start by identifying one new possibility you can believe in today.
If you’re ready to embrace new possibilities and unlock your potential, let’s work together to create a plan tailored to your unique journey. Schedule a consultation call with me today and take the first step towards a more successful and fulfilling future. 💼💪
Overcoming Burnout: A Path to Joyful Living
urnout is a growing issue, as highlighted by the U.S. Surgeon General’s report. Many businesswomen, especially immigrant businesswomen, feel that burnout is a necessary part of achieving success. But this couldn’t be further from the truth.
Burnout is a growing issue, as highlighted by the U.S. Surgeon General’s report. Many businesswomen, especially immigrant businesswomen, feel that burnout is a necessary part of achieving success. But this couldn’t be further from the truth.
Burnout leads to emotional exhaustion, stress, and a lack of fulfillment. However, it doesn’t have to be your reality. By changing your beliefs, thoughts, and feelings about burnout, you can create a joyful, balanced life.
As a life coach, I help businesswomen identify the root causes of burnout and develop strategies to overcome it. This includes managing stress, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-care.
Imagine waking up every day feeling energized and excited about your work. It’s possible to achieve this, and I’m here to help you every step of the way.
Don’t let burnout control your life. Schedule a free consultation with me today and take the first step towards a happier, healthier you.
Ready to transform your life? Schedule a free consultation now and start your journey to overcoming burnout and achieving a joyful, balanced life.
Unlock New Possibilities: Change Your Approach, Change Your Results
What if doing more of the same thing, even if it was harder or more effort, will only yield more of the same results? Sometimes more effort or harder work may create small improvements. But what will happen when you want to 10X your income with only 20 hours to do it in? Or when all resources have been maxed?
What if doing more of the same thing, even if it was harder or more effort, will only yield more of the same results? Sometimes more effort or harder work may create small improvements. But what will happen when you want to 10X your income with only 20 hours to do it in? Or when all resources have been maxed?
To create different outcomes, we need to change our approach. Sometimes less effort, less hard work by asking different questions, or believing in new possibilities, will create different results.
Ask Yourself:
What new ideas can I explore to see different possibilities?
If it was possible to achieve my goals with less effort, what would that look like?
How can I change my actions today to create a 10X outcome?
Vision of Possibility: Imagine achieving your goals with less effort by simply changing your approach. What would that look like for you? Maybe you can start by identifying one small change you can make today to improve your personal or professional life.
If you’re ready to embrace change and unlock your potential, let’s work together to create a plan tailored to your unique journey. Schedule a consultation calls with me today and take the first step towards a more successful and fulfilling future. 💼💪
Empower Your Journey: Safe and Healthy Relationship with Your Body and Emotions (Part 4)
Do you find yourself saying, “That makes sense to my brain BUT…”? Many of my clients, who are intelligent and hardworking immigrant businesswomen, struggle with creating a safe and empowering relationship with their body and emotions. Let’s explore how to achieve your goals without mental and emotional exhaustion.
Do you find yourself saying, “That makes sense to my brain BUT…”? Many of my clients, who are intelligent and hardworking immigrant businesswomen, struggle with creating a safe and empowering relationship with their body and emotions. Let’s explore how to achieve your goals without mental and emotional exhaustion.
Questions:
Do you feel comfortable in your body to experience emotions that inspire actions?
Do you make emotions mean something about yourself?
Are you unconsciously resisting emotions by pushing them away?
Tips:
Creating Safety in Your Body: I help you create a safe relationship with your body by feeling your emotions and creating the safety to take actions.
Understanding Emotions: I help you understand that humans feel emotions. Emotions want to communicate to us why they are here.
Emotional Resistance: I teach you that emotions and feelings have energy. When we push them away, we cause ourselves more exhaustion.
Imagine feeling empowered and confident, with a healthy relationship with your body and emotions. This will lead to achieving your goals with less mental and emotional exhaustion and more joy and fulfillment.
Download our FREE eBook to create a safe and empowering relationship with your body and emotions.
Overcoming Emotional Resistance: Embrace Your True Potential (Part 3)
Do you often say, “I intellectually get that BUT…”? As immigrant businesswomen, you might be resisting or avoiding emotions, leading to mental and emotional exhaustion. Let’s explore how to overcome emotional resistance and avoidance to achieve your goals.
Do you often say, “I intellectually get that BUT…”? As immigrant businesswomen, you might be resisting or avoiding emotions, leading to mental and emotional exhaustion. Let’s explore how to overcome emotional resistance and avoidance to achieve your goals.
Questions:
Are you unconsciously resisting emotions by pushing them away?
Are you avoiding emotions by telling yourself more knowledge will solve them?
Are you making emotions mean something personal and creating a story about them?
Strategies:
Emotional Resistance: I teach you that emotions and feelings have energy. When we push them away, we cause ourselves more exhaustion. Understanding this helps you manage emotions better.
Avoidance: I help you create a safe relationship to process emotions so that you can do the uncomfortable things. Your goals and desires matter, and emotions are part of the process.
Understanding Emotions: I help you understand that humans have emotions. Our thoughts create most of the emotions, and we can learn from them to take inspired and aligned action.
Imagine no longer resisting or avoiding your emotions, but instead using them to fuel your actions and achieve your goals. This will lead to a more fulfilling and successful life with less mental and emotional exhaustion.
Download our FREE eBook to overcome emotional resistance and avoidance.
Embrace Your Emotions: Understanding and Transforming Your Feelings (Part 2)
Do you find yourself saying, “I understand that BUT…”? Many of my clients, who are intelligent and hardworking immigrant businesswomen, struggle with understanding and embracing their emotions. Let’s explore how to transform your relationship with emotions to achieve your goals without mental and emotional exhaustion.
Do you find yourself saying, “I understand that BUT…”? Many of my clients, who are intelligent and hardworking immigrant businesswomen, struggle with understanding and embracing their emotions. Let’s explore how to transform your relationship with emotions to achieve your goals without mental and emotional exhaustion.
Questions:
Do you make emotions mean something about yourself?
Do you feel safe in your own body to feel emotions?
Do you believe the thought or sentence after the BUT is a true obstacle?
Insights:
Understanding Emotions: I help you understand that humans feel emotions. The key is to understand why we are having the current emotions. Emotions want to communicate to us why they are here.
Safety in Your Body: I help you create safety in your body to feel and learn from your emotions. Building a safe relationship with your body and emotions allows you to learn from the wisdom and knowledge already in your body.
Valuable Information: I help you understand that the thought or sentence after the BUT is valuable information from your brain. It tells you what it believes can be solved or needs to be solved, overcome, or worked through to create what you want.
Imagine understanding your emotions clearly, feeling safe in your body, and using your emotions to drive positive actions. This transformation will lead to greater personal and professional success with less mental and emotional exhaustion.
Download our FREE eBook to learn more about understanding and embracing your emotions.
Unlocking Your Potential: Creating a Safe Relationship with Your Body (Part 1)
Do you often find yourself saying, “I know that BUT…”? As highly intelligent and hardworking immigrant businesswomen, you might have all the knowledge, but still feel mentally and emotionally exhausted.
Do you often find yourself saying, “I know that BUT…”? As highly intelligent and hardworking immigrant businesswomen, you might have all the knowledge, but still feel mentally and emotionally exhausted. Let’s explore how to create a safe relationship with your body to inspire actions and achieve your goals without exhaustion.
Questions:
Do you feel comfortable in your body to experience emotions that inspire actions?
Do you believe that knowledge alone will create the results you want?
Have you created a fear-based connection to emotions?
Guidance:
Creating Safety in Your Body: I help you create a safe relationship with your body by feeling your emotions and creating the safety to take actions. This safety allows you to take more uncomfortable actions and move into areas that seemed very uncomfortable before.
Belief in Action: I help you understand that knowledge or information is only a third of the result creation process. Applied knowledge through action creates results and wisdom.
Healthy Relationship with Emotions: I help you build a different and safe relationship with emotions. Emotions are vibrations in our body, and everyone feels them. Building a healthy relationship with emotions moves us into taking inspired actions that bring us closer to our goals.
Imagine feeling confident and safe in your body, taking bold actions without fear, and seeing your business thrive. By creating a safe relationship with your body and emotions, you’ll experience less mental and emotional exhaustion and more success and fulfillment.
Download our FREE eBook to dive deeper into creating a safe relationship with your body and emotions.
Why Success Doesn’t Always Bring Happiness for Immigrant Businesswomen
You’ve done amazing things as an immigrant businesswoman, but happiness still feels far away. This is common and understanding why can help you find true joy. Let’s look at three reasons.
You’ve done amazing things as an immigrant businesswoman, but happiness still feels far away. This is common, and understanding why can help you find true joy. Let’s look at three reasons.
1. Obstacles and Challenges
Many women are always busy but don’t see the results they want. The problem is often not finding the real cause. By figuring out if the problem is a thought, feeling, or action, you can fix it better.
2. Emotional Exhaustion and Fatigue
Feeling tired even after changing things? This tiredness often comes from hidden beliefs or “rules” you’ve picked up. Changing these beliefs to match who you really are can help you feel better.
3. Struggling to Feel Joyful
Achieving more but still not happy? Sometimes, chasing achievements stops you from feeling true joy. Finding and fixing these blocks can help you feel the good emotions you deserve.
Conclusion:
If you’re ready to change your life and find true happiness, download my workbook. It has questions and steps to help you find and fix these problems.
Feeling Trapped in Your Business? Here’s How to Break Free and Earn What You’re Worth
Feeling Trapped in Your Business? Here’s How to Break Free and Earn What You’re Worth
Many immigrant businesswomen feel trapped in their businesses, unable to move forward despite their best efforts. This feeling of being stuck can lead to underearning and prevent you from achieving your full potential.
Feeling Trapped in Your Business? Here’s How to Break Free and Earn What You’re Worth
Many immigrant businesswomen feel trapped in their businesses, unable to move forward despite their best efforts. This feeling of being stuck can lead to underearning and prevent you from achieving your full potential.
Why This Happens: Feeling trapped often stems from cultural expectations, lack of support, or fear of failure. These factors can create a mental barrier that keeps you from taking the necessary steps to grow your business.
Example: Maria, an immigrant businesswoman, felt stuck in her small retail business. She was afraid to expand because she feared she wouldn’t be able to manage a larger operation. This fear kept her earnings low and her business stagnant.
Reflective Questions:
1. What specific fears or beliefs are keeping you from taking the next step in your business?
2. How do these feelings of being trapped affect your daily decisions and actions?
3. What support or resources do you need to overcome these feelings?
Next Action: Download our free workbook to explore these questions in depth and discover strategies to break free from feeling trapped.
Start by identifying one small step you can take today to move out of your comfort zone. It could be as simple as contacting a mentor or attending a networking event.
Ready to take your business to the next level?
Download our free workbooks and start earning what you’re worth.
Unlock Your Potential: 3 Steps to Work Smarter, Not Harder
As immigrant businesswomen, we often find ourselves working harder than necessary. But what if we could achieve more by working smarter? Here are three steps to help you do just that:
As immigrant businesswomen, we often find ourselves working harder than necessary. But what if we could achieve more by working smarter? Here are three steps to help you do just that:
1. Turn Complaints into Requests
Complaints are not the same as requests. Instead of saying, “I don’t like how things are,” make clear, actionable requests.
Next Actions:
• Identify one complaint you have today and reframe it into a request.
• Practice making one clear request each day for a week.
2. Know What You Don’t Want and What You Do Want
Knowing what you don’t want is the first step. But being clear on what you do want is smarter. It directs your energy towards solutions.
Next Actions:
• Write down three things you don’t want in your business.
• For each, write down what you do want instead.
3. Start with the End in Mind
Think about the result you need. This clarity will guide your actions and requests. It’s like ordering at a restaurant: Instead of saying, “I don’t want something spicy,” say, “I’d like a mild, tasty dish.”
Next Actions:
• Visualize the outcome you want for a current project.
• Write down the steps needed to achieve that outcome.
Call to Action: Ready to take the next step? Schedule a free consultation call with me today and let’s unlock your potential together!